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Post by idontthinkso on Jun 17, 2017 0:24:34 GMT 10
That's some good 'respectful gossip' over there! He basically said what we are all saying, but in the nicest way possible.
Now, can we fast-forward to the moment Josh spills what had been happening behind his back?? I feel like he's itching to tell... he's been mentioning it more and more. He might not actually spill the tea if he manages to resist this urge enough to get out of the anger phase, but it sure looks like he feels wronged and wants everyone else to know too. He’s been keeping this secret for himself for 9 months, he might not be able to keep it in anymore!
As for the ‘he’s actually the bad guy’ theory, I don’t believe that for a second. To me, Collin’s emotionally abusive behaviour is so blatantly obvious that I can’t even conceive a world where she was the victim and Josh the abusive type. That makes no sense to me.
Let’s remember her slapping her feet on his face and laughing at him, the god awful oreo challenge (again feet in his face, and stuffing the oreo in his mouth so violently he had to gag), the not mentioning him in her vlogs in Canada for weeks at a time, that livestream where they were bickering about the shade of a colour and a the end he had to ask her in the most diplomatic way possible to tone the aggressiveness down like he was afraid to tell her.
I don’t believe for one tiny second she was/is the victim. She is Manipuleen, the Kween of the vaheen.
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Post by ihateukuleles on Jun 17, 2017 0:24:50 GMT 10
So I was just rewatched colleens wedding video and the end where they're all gathered round the fire just seems really weird. I can't quite work out what it is but something just feels really off What always struck me in that video is Charlie, Josh's best friend, saying he was afraid Josh would get hurt in his relationship with Colleen. Either Charlie knew Josh was head over heels, or he saw something in Colleen that made him worry. But, knowing that Charlie's feelings were spot on is kind of heartbreaking. I also noticed in that video that I have NO DOUBT the last thing Colleen wanted at that time in her life was to be an "Evans woman." And, in fact, going so far at taking the Evans name off her social media etc. THAT must have meant so much to Josh to have her add that name onto her name after the wedding and CRUSHED him after she took it off....WHILE THEY WERE STILL MARRIED. |
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Post by randomer on Jun 17, 2017 0:28:51 GMT 10
I don’t believe for one tiny second she was/is the victim. She is Manipuleen, the Kween of the vaheen. Next thread title?....  |
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Post by Deleted on Jun 17, 2017 0:29:40 GMT 10
The polar opposite of colon with real tits and everything. beauty without make-up and silicon novel idea Like a princess |
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Post by Deleted on Jun 17, 2017 0:31:01 GMT 10
Nothing would surprise me anymore with that lot. oooh you're a bud now. another 228 posts to get to the ~special~ level Should be there by Monday... |
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Post by randomer on Jun 17, 2017 0:36:06 GMT 10
Lol what if the guy who made that video is lurkylurk? Or ackack? 😂😂😂
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Post by Deleted on Jun 17, 2017 0:39:42 GMT 10
Lol what if the guy who made that video is lurkylurk? Or ackack? 😂😂😂 You'd know if it was me... |
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Post by ihateukuleles on Jun 17, 2017 0:39:59 GMT 10
Interesting video. Also Josh made a comment in the comment section. What a thoughtful guy and interesting video. Thanks for sharing it!, dancinggrandma! LOVE Josh's comment too...that lets everyone know what he was saying wasn't outrageous. That part of the video where they are in bed in Canada...ouch! She is all sad face talking about Josh, then her voice and manner perks right up when she talks about who is coming next. I still think it was a giant mistake for Josh not to plan from the beginning to go live in Canada with her. Not visit. Live.From day 1. |
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Post by idontthinkso on Jun 17, 2017 0:45:49 GMT 10
Interesting video. Also Josh made a comment in the comment section. What a thoughtful guy and interesting video. Thanks for sharing it!, dancinggrandma! LOVE Josh's comment too...that lets everyone know what he was saying wasn't outrageous. That part of the video where they are in bed in Canada...ouch! She is all sad face talking about Josh, then her voice and manner perks right up when she talks about who is coming next. I still think it was a giant mistake for Josh not to plan from the beginning to go live in Canada with her. Not visit. Live.From day 1. I kind of disagree with that. He would have been a pet dog by definition, waiting around for her to get home. He would have been left alone 20 hours a day, away from his friends and from his life, vlogging alone, only to see Colin what, 2 hours before she'd go to sleep and wake up at 4am to be on set? No thank you. Being there would not have made the relationship one bit better - it would have probably ended even sooner, because she would not have had one bit of energy or will to give him the attention he needs. |
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Post by yograndma on Jun 17, 2017 0:46:03 GMT 10
Randomer, have you slept at all since you joined the garden? Your stamina is very impressive.
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Post by randomer on Jun 17, 2017 0:52:55 GMT 10
Randomer, have you slept at all since you joined the garden? Your stamina is very impressive. thanks! And umm remember that cool story I told you that it is summer break for me and I have no life? Not a joke. (Also I am reading this on my tablet and I forget to log out like all the time but this tab is open just so I don't lose it haha) also I am just always watching YouTube on another tab 😂 |
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Post by ihateukuleles on Jun 17, 2017 0:56:22 GMT 10
What a thoughtful guy and interesting video. Thanks for sharing it!, dancinggrandma! LOVE Josh's comment too...that lets everyone know what he was saying wasn't outrageous. That part of the video where they are in bed in Canada...ouch! She is all sad face talking about Josh, then her voice and manner perks right up when she talks about who is coming next. I still think it was a giant mistake for Josh not to plan from the beginning to go live in Canada with her. Not visit. Live.From day 1. I kind of disagree with that. He would have been a pet dog by definition, waiting around for her to get home. He would have been left alone 20 hours a day, away from his friends and from his life, vlogging alone, only to see Colin what, 2 hours before she'd go to sleep and wake up at 4am to be on set? No thank you. Being there would not have made the relationship one bit better - it would have probably ended even sooner, because she would not have had one bit of energy or will to give him the attention he needs. You make good points. Especially in THAT relationship. I know if it had been me, and I was moving away to do a stressful job, I would have wanted and NEEDED my spouse with me...if he had been willing to go. I'm divorced, but I've been dating a guy for 12 years. I would WANT him to be with me...even if only for those moments you described. At least Josh would have been included in those "puzzle nights" she was having with Erik and co. When I was married, we were a team. We were in things together. I would have followed my spouse/boyfriend to make their lives easier while they were doing the wage earning heavy lifting. BUT, like that guy in the video said. Colleen didn't want a lap dog husband. She probably disrespected Josh's one man shows and music videos. Does anyone remember right after Josh put out that 7 year song with Madilyn Bailey, Kory and Colleen were cracking on how horrible and corny that song is? So mean and ugly. |
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Post by savannanabanana on Jun 17, 2017 0:58:00 GMT 10
Heyo! Long time board lurker here finally deciding to show myself! Colleen has just REALLY been grinding my gears lately and I just CANNOT anymore. Back in the day, I used to be a HUGE fan of Colleen around 2013/14/mid 15, but after the wedding I kinda stopped watching her as much as I used to because she just got to be exhausting. Honestly, I really only stuck around to watch some of her videos because of Josh and Colleen's relationship (they used to be my "goals," ugh, it was simpler times). It wasn't until Josh didn't go to Canada during HBO and later got the dog when I noticed that something wasn't right. I mean, Colleen called the dog "Josh's dog," idk that didn't really set well with me for some reason. By the time the divorce rolled around, I wasn't even surprised, but I really felt bad for them both; it seemed like they had a really great relationship. Then like a week (not even a week, it was like four days at most) when Colleen started to post on her Snapchat and crap about being "  to be with family and friends!!!!!" ... what. Heck, she was even liking tweets the day she posted the divorce video! And lately I've been getting all of these notifications from my YouTube app about Colleen's vlogs and whenever I see the titles "choosing happiness," "what do you want from me," "why I don't talk about it," I just roll my eyes. It's so obvious she's coming for Josh, but why?? She's better off in a sense than he is, just leave the poor guy alone. Dear Lord, this girl is really something. Such a leech. (Sorry for popping in, just had to let it out. Colleen just gets me feeling some type of way.) |
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Post by idontthinkso on Jun 17, 2017 1:01:25 GMT 10
I kind of disagree with that. He would have been a pet dog by definition, waiting around for her to get home. He would have been left alone 20 hours a day, away from his friends and from his life, vlogging alone, only to see Colin what, 2 hours before she'd go to sleep and wake up at 4am to be on set? No thank you. Being there would not have made the relationship one bit better - it would have probably ended even sooner, because she would not have had one bit of energy or will to give him the attention he needs. You make good points. Especially in THAT relationship. I know if it had been me, and I was moving away to do a stressful job, I would have wanted and NEEDED my spouse with me...if he had been willing to go. I'm divorced, but I've been dating a guy for 12 years. I would WANT him to be with me...even if only for those moments you described. At least Josh would have been included in those "puzzle nights" she was having with Erik and co. When I was married, we were a team. We were in things together. I would have followed my spouse/boyfriend to make their lives easier while they were doing the wage earning heavy lifting. BUT, like that guy in the video said. Colleen didn't want a lap dog husband. She probably disrespected Josh's one man shows and music videos. Does anyone remember right after Josh put out that 7 year song with Madilyn Bailey, Kory and Colleen were cracking on how horrible and corny that song is? So mean and ugly. Yeah exactly! I think that if it had been a healthy relationship with strong foundations and honest communication, Josh being in Canada would have been great, and both would have been nourished by being together. But for how Kweenleen is, she probably encouraged him to stay put in Cali. And yeah, so many times she was snarky with his work. Someone commented on his thank you california music video a sweet thing about the song, and Josh replied: well at least someone appreciates it. Tells a lot... |
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Post by meowstache on Jun 17, 2017 1:02:15 GMT 10
Regarding the video posted below, and in general--I just feel like it wasn't going to work, ever, you know? I know most of y'all have seen the "Draw My Life" Josh did, but I don't think most fans consider that he gave up on some great career opportunities to be with Colleen, and like to think he would be nothing without her. She probaby thinks that too, and regarding YouTube success, isn't totally inaccurate. But tha fact, and the fact that Josh was willing to sacrifice in areas where she wasn't, is a total power imbalance. Relationships cannot sustain themselves when one partner has more power--whether financial, emotional, whatever--than the other (speaking from personal experience, heh).
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Post by idontthinkso on Jun 17, 2017 1:05:23 GMT 10
Regarding the video posted below, and in general--I just feel like it wasn't going to work, ever, you know? I know most of y'all have seen the "Draw My Life" Josh did, but I don't think most fans consider that he gave up on some great career opportunities to be with Colleen, and like to think he would be nothing without her. She probaby thinks that too, and regarding YouTube success, isn't totally inaccurate. But tha fact, and the fact that Josh was willing to sacrifice in areas where she wasn't, is a total power imbalance. Relationships cannot sustain themselves when one partner has more power--whether financial, emotional, whatever--than the other (speaking from personal experience, heh). Agreed. Or if they do last, they are very unhealthy and unhappy. |
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Post by Deleted on Jun 17, 2017 1:08:12 GMT 10
Randomer, have you slept at all since you joined the garden? Your stamina is very impressive. Reported for flirting |
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Post by Deleted on Jun 17, 2017 1:12:53 GMT 10
Hindsight is brilliant but I always thought something wasn't quite right in his year of vlogs...
Even when colin was a bit nicer than she is now, it didn't feel right to me.
Early alarm bells for me was spending every xmas with her parents and never going to his.
And while I think of it, isn't time for her to start putting up xmas decorations about now?
I warn you all now... that's going to trigger me.
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Post by yograndma on Jun 17, 2017 1:14:33 GMT 10
What a thoughtful guy and interesting video. Thanks for sharing it!, dancinggrandma! LOVE Josh's comment too...that lets everyone know what he was saying wasn't outrageous. That part of the video where they are in bed in Canada...ouch! She is all sad face talking about Josh, then her voice and manner perks right up when she talks about who is coming next. I still think it was a giant mistake for Josh not to plan from the beginning to go live in Canada with her. Not visit. Live.From day 1. I kind of disagree with that. He would have been a pet dog by definition, waiting around for her to get home. He would have been left alone 20 hours a day, away from his friends and from his life, vlogging alone, only to see Colin what, 2 hours before she'd go to sleep and wake up at 4am to be on set? No thank you. Being there would not have made the relationship one bit better - it would have probably ended even sooner, because she would not have had one bit of energy or will to give him the attention he needs. Yep, I agree. She probably would have given Josh about as much attention (and much less affection) as she gives Gus. When I think about it there are some parallels between Josh and the cat - she used and abused both of them. The only reason she's probably given up on stuffing the cat down her pants is because he's so overfed that he won't fit . Another thing, I watched the Ballinger vlog today where Jessica talked about Bailey crying because they were leaving their old house. I wonder how upset the kids were when they were told Uncle Josh wasn't going to be around any more. Or are the Ballingers programed to only be attached to inanimate objects? |
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Post by ihateukuleles on Jun 17, 2017 1:15:11 GMT 10
I remember reading a review of a Miranda live show a couple years ago. The reviewer was lukewarm about Colleen/Miranda, but she called Josh,"delicious."
Screw you, and your judgey pants too, Colleen.
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Post by Tuskvegas on Jun 17, 2017 1:16:30 GMT 10
Hindsight is brilliant but I always thought something wasn't quite right in his year of vlogs... Even when colin was a bit nicer than she is now, it didn't feel right to me. Early alarm bells for me was spending every xmas with her parents and never going to his. And while I think of it, isn't time for her to start putting up xmas decorations about now? I warn you all now... that's going to trigger me. more like NEVER visiting. I hate going to my bf's parents because it gives me bad anxiety but we still do 1 xmas on, one off, and he's welcome to visit whenever he wants (they live like 4 hours away). colleen stifled him to a point where he visited like once a year. I find his relationship withhis bro pretty odd. im imagining its pretty strained now. |
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Post by Deleted on Jun 17, 2017 1:20:06 GMT 10
[more like NEVER visiting. I hate going to my bf's parents because it gives me bad anxiety but we still do 1 xmas on, one off, and he's welcome to visit whenever he wants (they live like 4 hours away). colleen stifled him to a point where he visited like once a year. I find his relationship withhis bro pretty odd. im imagining its pretty strained now. Exactly, there was no give or take on that front. I don't really pay attention to his brother, but now you mention it he doesn't mention him much. I can't even remember the last time he did. |
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Post by Tuskvegas on Jun 17, 2017 1:22:04 GMT 10
[more like NEVER visiting. I hate going to my bf's parents because it gives me bad anxiety but we still do 1 xmas on, one off, and he's welcome to visit whenever he wants (they live like 4 hours away). colleen stifled him to a point where he visited like once a year. I find his relationship withhis bro pretty odd. im imagining its pretty strained now. Exactly, there was no give or take on that front. I don't really pay attention to his brother, but now you mention it he doesn't mention him much. I can't even remember the last time he did. Last time i remember it was when they ate the nuggets with erin |
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Post by yograndma on Jun 17, 2017 1:22:59 GMT 10
Randomer, have you slept at all since you joined the garden? Your stamina is very impressive. Reported for flirting Hahaha you lunatic. If I'd said it to you it would be flirting but we all know that's not likely to happen (happy marriage, advanced age and dodgy hip remember?). |
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Post by Deleted on Jun 17, 2017 1:23:39 GMT 10
When was that?
@tusky
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Post by meowstache on Jun 17, 2017 1:24:13 GMT 10
Oh, also: I'm a crazy cat lady, and I know there are a few others of you here--a whole can of wet food for Gus in a meal? I mean, granted, I have four kitties, but they each only get a quarter of a can a day, mixed in with some dry food. Maybe I'm stingy, but...no wonder Gus is so fat!
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Post by Deleted on Jun 17, 2017 1:26:17 GMT 10
Hahaha you lunatic. If I'd said it to you it would be flirting but we all know that's not likely to happen (happy marriage, advanced age and dodgy hip remember?). You say advanced age when I'm not too far behind you 17 Devil |
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Post by savannanabanana on Jun 17, 2017 1:28:59 GMT 10
I kind of disagree with that. He would have been a pet dog by definition, waiting around for her to get home. He would have been left alone 20 hours a day, away from his friends and from his life, vlogging alone, only to see Colin what, 2 hours before she'd go to sleep and wake up at 4am to be on set? No thank you. Being there would not have made the relationship one bit better - it would have probably ended even sooner, because she would not have had one bit of energy or will to give him the attention he needs. Yep, I agree. She probably would have given Josh about as much attention (and much less affection) as she gives Gus. When I think about it there are some parallels between Josh and the cat - she used and abused both of them. The only reason she's probably given up on stuffing the cat down her pants is because he's so overfed that he won't fit . Another thing, I watched the Ballinger vlog today where Jessica talked about Bailey crying because they were leaving their old house. I wonder how upset the kids were when they were told Uncle Josh wasn't going to be around any more. Or are the Ballingers programed to only be attached to inanimate objects? Ughhh, the way Colleen treats Gus makes me so mad. She posted a selfie with the poor thing the other day and his eyes look so vacant. She treats him like a prop, which is essentially what he is at this point. And gosh, I don't even want to think about how the kids felt when they found out about Colleen and Josh splitting. They seemed to really like him. That reminds me, does anyone know if Trent and Josh are on good terms?? Colleen made a "happiness" tweet after Josh's first vlog where he opened up and Trent replied to it basically telling her to ignore negativity. I can't remember what it said exactly, but I know that Josh and him were friendly back in the day so I wonder if Trent feels differently now or if he's remaining neutral. |
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Post by Deleted on Jun 17, 2017 1:30:43 GMT 10
I wonder if Trent feels differently now or if he's remaining neutral. Guaranteed he's been beaten into joining team colon |
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Post by yograndma on Jun 17, 2017 1:30:57 GMT 10
I'm off to bed. It will be interesting to see what's in Josh's vlog tomorrow, to see what direction he's taking. Keep up the good work, randomer.
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to be with family and friends!!!!!" ... what. Heck, she was even liking tweets the day she posted the divorce video! And lately I've been getting all of these notifications from my YouTube app about Colleen's vlogs and whenever I see the titles "choosing happiness," "what do you want from me," "why I don't talk about it," I just roll my eyes. It's so obvious she's coming for Josh, but why?? She's better off in a sense than he is, just leave the poor guy alone. Dear Lord, this girl is really something. Such a leech. (Sorry for popping in, just had to let it out. Colleen just gets me feeling some type of way.)