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Post by Deleted on Jun 16, 2017 2:08:00 GMT 10
I believe it. I know since they lived together a lot of people were like "yeah right there is no way they waited till marriage because they slept in the same bed...that is some mad self control" and im over here like "umm your right...I'm sure if you sleep in the Same bed it may take some self control but like..I think it's possible" I just don't believe her. |
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Post by succulentqueen on Jun 16, 2017 2:13:44 GMT 10
What if he can't address the cheating/Erik issues because he has no actual proof. We've all seen the videos of them together, pictures, cabin gate, etc. But none of that is true actual proof. That would suck big time. I hope he does have some kind of official proof - if only for himself. Also - Their entire relationship was broadcast on the internet. They have both made various videos that referenced the other when the other wasn't physically there in the past. This makes their relationship / situation unique - compared to the average joe who wouldn't go around sharing their divorce for the world to hear. Most ppl dont share their lives online - this is fallout from them doing so. It only makes sense to be consistent, share it and move on. No need to wallow in it or play back and forth. Just lay it out on the table like they've always done. If privacy was a concern they should have gone about things differently a loooong time ago. Facts are facts. There is no manipulation, no opinions or guessing in facts. Only truth. Speak your facts Josh! We can tell you want to sooo bad. Don't let someone shut you up just because the truth makes them uncomfortable. It's not all about her anymore. I agree, however disclosing to an audience of millions that you've been cheated on or whatever is 1) very humiliating and mortifying 2) controversial to the point that you receive a huge amount of abuse and threats from thousands of people 3) enough for a defamation law suit, even if he does happen to have proof of an affair, or of any other wrongdoing colin might have under her belt 4) could negatively influence your career and any future opportunities especially in entertainment So perhaps he's considering, but I can understand why he didn't do it yet, or if he doesn't do it at all. True. Good points. I think he could do it very matter of factly though. Keeping the details and feelings out of it. Like, #1 - Her reason for leaving was ______ #2 - I found out later that there was in fact an affair/cheating #3 - etc. |
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Post by randomer on Jun 16, 2017 2:14:10 GMT 10
What if he can't address the cheating/Erik issues because he has no actual proof. We've all seen the videos of them together, pictures, cabin gate, etc. But none of that is true actual proof. That would suck big time. I hope he does have some kind of official proof - if only for himself. Also - Their entire relationship was broadcast on the internet. They have both made various videos that referenced the other when the other wasn't physically there in the past. This makes their relationship / situation unique - compared to the average joe who wouldn't go around sharing their divorce for the world to hear. Most ppl dont share their lives online - this is fallout from them doing so. It only makes sense to be consistent, share it and move on. No need to wallow in it or play back and forth. Just lay it out on the table like they've always done. If privacy was a concern they should have gone about things differently a loooong time ago. Facts are facts. There is no manipulation, no opinions or guessing in facts. Only truth. Speak your facts Josh! We can tell you want to sooo bad. Don't let someone shut you up just because the truth makes them uncomfortable. It's not all about her anymore. I agree, however disclosing to an audience of millions that you've been cheated on or whatever is 1) very humiliating and mortifying 2) controversial to the point that you receive a huge amount of abuse and threats from thousands of people 3) enough for a defamation law suit, even if he does happen to have proof of an affair, or of any other wrongdoing colin might have under her belt 4) could negatively influence your career and any future opportunities especially in entertainment So perhaps he's considering, but I can understand why he didn't do it yet, or if he doesn't do it at all. The sad thing is that it's likely that she won't even loose her fanbase because it's mostly kiddos and are practically brainwashed and will defend her no matter what. Again wouldn't be surprised if she actually gained subs and followers because if it. You know the youbers probably won't care. Right after the divorce she was colaabing with like everyone because they probably wanted to know what happened. And then they stopped. Looks like they are all reaching out to her again now too. |
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Post by nosygossiplover on Jun 16, 2017 2:16:08 GMT 10
I just don't believe her. Did either of them ever claim they were virgins until the wedding? I thought they just said they were virgins until they met each other. But I don't think it would have been that hard to wait because neither of them seem very sexual imo. |
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Post by succulentqueen on Jun 16, 2017 2:19:36 GMT 10
I agree, however disclosing to an audience of millions that you've been cheated on or whatever is 1) very humiliating and mortifying 2) controversial to the point that you receive a huge amount of abuse and threats from thousands of people 3) enough for a defamation law suit, even if he does happen to have proof of an affair, or of any other wrongdoing colin might have under her belt 4) could negatively influence your career and any future opportunities especially in entertainment So perhaps he's considering, but I can understand why he didn't do it yet, or if he doesn't do it at all. The sad thing is that it's likely that she won't even loose her fanbase because it's mostly kiddos and are practically brainwashed and will defend her no matter what. Again wouldn't be surprised if she actually gained subs and followers because if it. You know the youbers probably won't care. Right after the divorce she was colaabing with like everyone because they probably wanted to know what happened. And then they stopped. Looks like they are all reaching out to her again now too. He shouldn't be posting anything for her fans or for her, or other youtubers. (Unless he wants to, I mean he shouldn't feel controled by them in what he posts) His channel is for him. Who cares what they think? Who cares about her subs. (Unless they are going down. 😉) |
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Post by randomer on Jun 16, 2017 2:20:58 GMT 10
Did either of them ever claim they were virgins until the wedding? I thought they just said they were virgins until they met each other. But I don't think it would have been that hard to wait because neither of them seem very sexual imo. In the vlog about virgins he said "I guess we'all have to magically become virgins again" colleen: you're not a virgin? josh: no.. colleen: *fake gasp* you're not? josh: no... were you there on our honeymoon week? colleen: ummm..yeah? josh: then that's who I lost my virginity to. (then colleen still goes on an claims that she is still till a virgin for a bit) |
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Post by Deleted on Jun 16, 2017 2:34:20 GMT 10
What's going on with the quotes?
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Post by hidingbehindusername on Jun 16, 2017 2:37:55 GMT 10
I am gone for a day and a half and I have to catch up on over 15 pages!?! Bruh. I caught up though and I have to wonder. What on earth do their YouTube networks think of all this messy drama? This has gotten crazy!!
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Post by gossipgranny on Jun 16, 2017 2:39:14 GMT 10
I never took that conversation to mean that their honeymoon was the first time they had sex. I know Josh is all about love but guys (and women) have needs.
Regardless, it doesn't have to be sex to be cheating.
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Post by randomer on Jun 16, 2017 2:47:38 GMT 10
What's going on with the quotes? Honestly I just tapped in the wrong area so it started going in the green And I was just too lazy to go back and fix it haha |
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Post by Deleted on Jun 16, 2017 2:52:59 GMT 10
What's going on with the quotes? I thought I was going crazy  Ackack is mighty fine though. |
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Post by randomer on Jun 16, 2017 2:57:50 GMT 10
I thought I was going crazy Ackack is mighty fine though. You're fired |
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Post by dancinggrandma on Jun 16, 2017 2:58:14 GMT 10
Check out the "newest first" comment section on his Oreo video. Someone writes: "she's so rude to him. and I know you're going to say they're being playful, but you can tell she's short with him, disrespectful, doesn't seem like she even wants to be near him.. if I'm not mistaken, this was their last video together before the divorce? you can tell she's thinking about it here, she has to be. not meaning she's thinking "I'm going to divorce him in a few weeks" in this video lol. but there's something off here, & it's from Colleens side (no hate! I love her) I wonder if he noticed it at all or was just blinded by his love for her... either way... it's really sad"
And Josh responded to this comment and said: "no i saw it. my friends saw it. my family saw it. just always thought it would get better." |
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Post by nobody777 on Jun 16, 2017 2:59:10 GMT 10
Colleen is a classic case of Narcissistic Personality Disorder and it's painful to watch Josh try to make sense of her behavior and the shit she incites in her minions. People that put up with narcs are usually codependent so he needs to figure that out about himself and move on to something healthier.
Classic narc characteristics:
- Puts on a public image that doesn't match the private one (like how she wants to seem like a happy person publicly who has her shit together, but privately bashes everyone)
- Likes to seem like the victim to get sympathy and manipulate people
- Only goal in life is to search for new sources of "supply" that they can use for admiration, money, gifts, etc.. Once people aren't useful to them anymore, they discard them. This is why they are almost always unfaithful too. Sex is a powerful tool to get what you want.
- Uses "flying monkeys" to do their dirty work (like attack Josh)
- Masters of gaslighting (doing crazy stuff and then acting like you're the crazy one for reacting or mentioning it)
- SO MUCH MORE. She's a textbook case.
As much as I want to hear Josh's side, he has to realize who she is, that he'll never win this public battle because narcs are experts at manipulation, and move on. Success and happiness are the ultimate revenge because she will never have those long term.
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Post by horsehockey on Jun 16, 2017 3:05:51 GMT 10
Ugh, I keep on thinking that as the years go by people will become more open minded. I hate the fact that for every little thing, an apology is given or whatever. People stop apologizing!! (jason nash said it right on the views podacsts' recent episode...)
Another thought, if the little minions do come here and read and yet haven't changed their opinions, I'm honestly terrified! It's like someone being told the earth is round and will still believe it flat,even if shown physical evidence(satellites) that proves otherwise.
P.S. ackack- you had me cracking up these last few pages😂
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Post by randomer on Jun 16, 2017 3:06:58 GMT 10
THE chewed gum freakout tho. "Throw it away And I'll give you a kiss"
josh: really?!
Colleen: yes really I will just Throw when it away please
that's sick...I...I just.....she made him do tasks for her affection....that's heartbreaking...they sound like 2nd graders
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Post by ratchetrachel on Jun 16, 2017 3:09:15 GMT 10
Y'all have been brilliant and hilarious these last few pages! So funny! Hope she sees this. Hope she really thinks. Long shot but a girl can wish.  |
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Post by Deleted on Jun 16, 2017 3:12:12 GMT 10
THE chewed gum freakout tho. "Throw it away And I'll give you a kiss" josh: really?! Colleen: yes really I will just Throw when it away please that's sick...I...I just.....she made him do tasks for her affection....that's heartbreaking...they sound like 2nd graders And yet she burps and feeds him an oreo with her foot.  |
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Post by gossipgranny on Jun 16, 2017 3:13:46 GMT 10
THE chewed gum freakout tho. "Throw it away And I'll give you a kiss" josh: really?! Colleen: yes really I will just Throw when it away please that's sick...I...I just.....she made him do tasks for her affection....that's heartbreaking...they sound like 2nd graders And yet she burps and feeds him an oreo with her foot. Seriously. If anything or anyone is vile here..... |
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Post by callalily on Jun 16, 2017 3:15:04 GMT 10
Just talk about boobs and he will distracted. 😉😂 edit: trying to take a shower and ban minions at the same time is hard Oooh... wanders off... Back off lurky these are my birds, I was here first. 😂😂😂 what does your wife say about you flirting with all these birds? |
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Post by april_franco on Jun 16, 2017 3:15:12 GMT 10
I need you to post more, just so I can look at your avatar.  |
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Post by randomer on Jun 16, 2017 3:16:36 GMT 10
I need you to post more, just so I can look at your avatar. Amen |
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Post by callalily on Jun 16, 2017 3:19:09 GMT 10
Wow I'm on the gay as shit colon fan page. I'm 43...yeah what's that got to do with anything? Is being a cunt to others only reserved for the colin clones whose age averages 9? 😂😂😂 where is this fanpage? ive just caught up with six pages lol! |
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Post by randomer on Jun 16, 2017 3:22:10 GMT 10
If y'all wanna look at his twitter replies in the last like 15 minutes. I don't know why but seeing that he is aware of these things just makes me happy. Just happy he isn't oblivious to truth.
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Post by sistermadly on Jun 16, 2017 3:30:41 GMT 10
You know what...maybe he can't stand up to her alone! He needs his friends and YouTube mates to call her out on her shit! They all know she is fake - time for them to publicly stand up for their friend!
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Post by AK713 on Jun 16, 2017 3:41:45 GMT 10
Whoa... that was a lot of catching up to do.
I don't really have anything that hasn't already been said. The minions are SO out of control and Colleen is a real piece of trash for continuing to encourage their bullshit by liking these tweets. I honestly hope Josh has reported the threats - and I hope Twitter can do something about it... I understand they're kids but they need to learn that threatening someone is not OK and they should be treated like the "adults" they apparently think they are when it comes to the consequences for those threats.
I HATE that Josh felt he had to apologize for that video. IMO, he didn't cross any lines. Someone tweeted a screenshot of a comment on his video of someone saying that The person who caused his pain doesn't get to dictate how he copes with it (paraphrasing - they said it way better than I just did) -and I totally agree with this. I wish it was possible for him to ignore her and her mindless minions and just do what he wants within reason (without defaming anyone or saying anything that would cause any legal ramification)
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Post by meowstache on Jun 16, 2017 3:44:52 GMT 10
Hey all! Long time lurker here, since GG, etc, etc. A pleasure to finally join the conversation here! I have a lot of ~feelings~ about this mess, and I'm pretty sure it's been mostly said before, so I'll try to be brief.
I am glad Josh didn't get too personal. I'm sure we all kind of wanted that tea, and I would love to see Colleen taken down several pegs, but the backlash would have been tremendous, and I honestly think that it would have been extrememly immature. What he said in his last video--that's what the therapy is for, yo. THAT being said, I don't think he said anything out of line at all. He was speaking about how HE felt in the relationship, and I don't see why explaining that is over-sharing. If I recall, he didn't say anything really specifically about her, like "she was all over others mens" or "she had this really annoying habit of _____" or...anything like that. I think Josh could have made a video saying, hey, I've realized that me sharing stuff any more than I have is not a good idea, so I'll leave it at what I said, rather than backing down for what he said that was completely within normal bounds.
Rearding Colleen, I agree with many of you about how contradictory this whole "spread happiness" thing is, particularly given her other twitter activity. Something that is driving me batty (and likely is just a pet peeve of mine, heh, clock the English degrees) is her over-simplified vocabulary: "don't be mean. be nice. be happy"--I mean, her fans are 13, not 3, good grief. I can't explain why it grates me so, but it's like--girl. Feel free to utilize a bit more of the English language.
And fuck off, Daniel Preda. I have a special dislike for people that get involved in other's drama that they have NO part in, and act all high and mighty about it. Same thing with the minions, really. Like, lecturing an adult on how to behave--girl, get some real life experience, and I'll get back to you when you have any idea what the hell you're talking about.
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Post by AK713 on Jun 16, 2017 3:45:54 GMT 10
THE chewed gum freakout tho. "Throw it away And I'll give you a kiss" josh: really?! Colleen: yes really I will just Throw when it away please that's sick...I...I just.....she made him do tasks for her affection....that's heartbreaking...they sound like 2nd graders That part pissed me off SO bad. She's so childish and manipulative and It's f-ing GUM from your HUSBAND'S mouth. It wasn't like a stranger asked you to hold their gum... The other part that made me want to slap her was when he said "do i get something from you if i win?" and she said "um, yeah- you can rub my back.".... ARE YOU SERIOUS with that? What a bitch!! |
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Post by randomer on Jun 16, 2017 3:49:42 GMT 10
If I were him I already would have said something along the lines of "To all you people telling me to 'move on' from this relationship umm how about you first? 😊"
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Post by kacmac on Jun 16, 2017 4:01:22 GMT 10
I do think colleen was his first but I'm not so sure that he wasn't hers. Won't be surprised if he was but they both said that they waited till the honeymoon. If you look up Josh's vlog "virgin talk who was my first" the conversation him and colleen have in the terminal is...something 😂 she said they were both each others first in a livestream called I NEED YOU .....I think around the one hour mark |
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