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Post by nolitaflat on Jun 9, 2017 12:20:39 GMT 10
That broke my heart. He's hurting so bad... not that I ever thought he wasn't or that he was all better, but I guess just seeing it in it's raw form.. Poor thing. I really hope he pulls through this.
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Post by srslypsychosoprano on Jun 9, 2017 13:01:13 GMT 10
Yeah I really do feel for him. I hope he realizes that he's young and still has a chance at love and a family. He needs to be able to see past Colleen and that part of his life, but I know how hard that can be, especially when you were the one who didn't want to break up. I hope he finds his happiness and I hope colleen gets everything she deserves.
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Post by srslypsychosoprano on Jun 9, 2017 13:08:06 GMT 10
I honestly felt so bad for him in his new video where he says he's going to therapy. Why did Colleen marry him if she was just going to toss him aside like that? My mom did the same thing to my dad. If you don't like someone, then don't get freaking married! I wouldn't be surprised if they had only dated a year. I'd just say yeah she was after money and fame and the marriage helped that, but they had been dating a long time. Bitch, you don't stay with someone that long just to divorce them one year after marriage. It just doesn't make sense to me and I can only see her being at fault every time I try to wrap my head around it. I'm not a Josh Stan, I like him a lot, but I don't believe he can do no wrong. This is the one thing that I really sympathise with and have from the start. In fact, I wasn't a big fan of his until after the divorce announcement because I believed he was the victim and was proud of him for trying to overcome this and be better. |
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Post by Tuskvegas on Jun 9, 2017 14:17:11 GMT 10
i'm cringing at all the people jumping in telling him to turn to god. Each to their own but it's not up to god or religion to put a bandaid on his pain. he has to fix it himself.
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Post by bixie on Jun 9, 2017 14:27:21 GMT 10
Thank you, Tuskvegas! I wanted to say the same thing. Those comments are making me cringe too.
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Post by Tuskvegas on Jun 9, 2017 14:58:50 GMT 10
Thank you, Tuskvegas! I wanted to say the same thing. Those comments are making me cringe too. Interesting to see people mentioning boards in the chat and pointing out that colleen is a workaholic. Some mentioned gurugossip too. I'm guessing that's you guys? Could that be why we have an influx of people joining? |
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Post by nosygossiplover on Jun 9, 2017 17:03:01 GMT 10
I honestly felt so bad for him in his new video where he says he's going to therapy. Why did Colleen marry him if she was just going to toss him aside like that? My mom did the same thing to my dad. If you don't like someone, then don't get freaking married! I wouldn't be surprised if they had only dated a year. I'd just say yeah she was after money and fame and the marriage helped that, but they had been dating a long time. . Exactly, I believe they were together for over 6 years! Plenty of time to get to know someone. I just think it's SO cruel to string someone along. My mom left my dad after 20 years for no particular reason. Nothing big happened in the relationship.…it's just like she never saw the relationship as permanent and was always planning on leaving eventually. |
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Post by srslypsychosoprano on Jun 9, 2017 17:24:50 GMT 10
I wouldn't be surprised if they had only dated a year. I'd just say yeah she was after money and fame and the marriage helped that, but they had been dating a long time. . Exactly, I believe they were together for over 6 years! Plenty of time to get to know someone. I just think it's SO cruel to string someone along. My mom left my dad after 20 years for no particular reason. Nothing big happened in the relationship.…it's just like she never saw the relationship as permanent and was always planning on leaving eventually. Yeesh...i get falling out of love and wanting to move on, but marriage is supposed to be a life-long commitment. It takes work and if you find yourself drifting then you don't feed into that, you find a way back to that person and try to fall in love again. I don't feel like she tried. I think she just decided it wouldn't work and refused to try and fix things. |
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Post by Tuskvegas on Jun 9, 2017 17:32:35 GMT 10
I wouldn't be surprised if they had only dated a year. I'd just say yeah she was after money and fame and the marriage helped that, but they had been dating a long time. . Exactly, I believe they were together for over 6 years! Plenty of time to get to know someone. I just think it's SO cruel to string someone along. My mom left my dad after 20 years for no particular reason. Nothing big happened in the relationship.…it's just like she never saw the relationship as permanent and was always planning on leaving eventually. I think a lot of times its not that people just change their minds, it's a slow thing that creeps up and by the time you realise the relationship is in trouble it's too late. Dates stop, work takes over, kids, money, those things build up and if you neglect each other then it's not gonna work. I think with colleen she just put work first and pushed josh away |
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Post by Deleted on Jun 9, 2017 17:51:40 GMT 10
This is the part of YouTube I hate
Pimping out ones personal life for a buck
With tear stained thumbnails and the whole thing
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Post by ratchetrachel on Jun 9, 2017 17:52:03 GMT 10
Thank you, Tuskvegas! I wanted to say the same thing. Those comments are making me cringe too. Interesting to see people mentioning boards in the chat and pointing out that colleen is a workaholic. Some mentioned gurugossip too. I'm guessing that's you guys? Could that be why we have an influx of people joining? I've not mentioned anything. I'm too afraid of a minion invasion. |
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Post by Tuskvegas on Jun 9, 2017 17:54:59 GMT 10
Interesting to see people mentioning boards in the chat and pointing out that colleen is a workaholic. Some mentioned gurugossip too. I'm guessing that's you guys? Could that be why we have an influx of people joining? I've not mentioned anything. I'm too afraid of a minion invasion. goddamn minions. |
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Post by callalily on Jun 9, 2017 19:48:48 GMT 10
It made me sad that he mentioned his world started to fall apart before the divorce happened. Like he saw it coming. I wonder if he was in denial or knew it was coming and fought it even harder than we thought Didn't he fly over to Canada last year to fight for his marriage? I'm sure there was a video along those lines. |
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Post by oo on Jun 9, 2017 20:47:51 GMT 10
I think his vlogging everyday isn't necessarily a bad thing but I don't think it'll last.
He seems to be looking for something to hold him accountable each day. This is not a bad thing at all but I know with my depression I look to do small things each day (ie: call a friend, make my bed, do dishes). His depression may not be as consuming as others so maybe vlogging will work.
I'm just concerned it's "too much". But as long as he is focusing on himself I feel that's a good thing.
Damn I hate seeing people struggling. Respect him for not stigmatizing mental health.
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Post by gossipgranny on Jun 9, 2017 21:12:00 GMT 10
It made me sad that he mentioned his world started to fall apart before the divorce happened. Like he saw it coming. I wonder if he was in denial or knew it was coming and fought it even harder than we thought Didn't he fly over to Canada last year to fight for his marriage? I'm sure there was a video along those lines. Yeah, now that you mention it. There was a vlog that I think she posted last year where he flew over there and the tone was much different than the first time he was over there. Like you could tell something was up. |
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Post by nolitaflat on Jun 10, 2017 6:41:20 GMT 10
new vlog just put up yall! whos watching it??
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Post by AK713 on Jun 10, 2017 6:58:50 GMT 10
new vlog just put up yall! whos watching it?? Just watched it! I like that he'll be vlogging everyday - because he's being "real" and not trying to be fake about everything. I do hope it helps him though and isn't too much for him. (and hopefully he'll stop if it is) |
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Post by nolitaflat on Jun 10, 2017 7:12:03 GMT 10
Just got to watch it finally, and even though some would consider it a "boring" vlog, I like those kinds of vlogs. Just following people along on their days, even if they don't do exciting stuff. Helps if I'm invested in the person and their life too. It was cool to see a daily vlog from him again  |
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Post by bixie on Jun 10, 2017 11:44:27 GMT 10
Thank you, Tuskvegas! I wanted to say the same thing. Those comments are making me cringe too. Interesting to see people mentioning boards in the chat and pointing out that colleen is a workaholic. Some mentioned gurugossip too. I'm guessing that's you guys? Could that be why we have an influx of people joining? Definitely wasn't me. Which chat do you mean? |
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Post by Tuskvegas on Jun 10, 2017 12:14:29 GMT 10
Interesting to see people mentioning boards in the chat and pointing out that colleen is a workaholic. Some mentioned gurugossip too. I'm guessing that's you guys? Could that be why we have an influx of people joining? Definitely wasn't me. Which chat do you mean? there were people mentioning stuff we have said about how she's a workaholic etc |
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Post by bixie on Jun 10, 2017 12:18:11 GMT 10
But where? YouTube?
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Post by Tuskvegas on Jun 10, 2017 12:50:48 GMT 10
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Post by dancingintherain23 on Jun 10, 2017 17:37:57 GMT 10
When Josh was talking about the alarm salesman, was anyone else feeling like the guy was a bit sketchy? It seemed like a weird coincidence that some other sketchy guy knocked on Josh's door not too long ago, and here comes an "alarm salesman." It could all be part of a scope of his house. I really hope that Josh made sure the guy was legit before telling him that he travels a lot and that Erin housesits for him. I don't want him to get scammed or robbed. Hopefully, he decided to go through one of the big companies, like ADT or SimpliSafe. (Wow. I sound crazy.) My family and I usually only tell people who need to know when we are going away, and we make sure that we don't discuss it loudly outside or with windows open. Is anyone else like that? Don't mind my rambling...it's 3:30 AM, and I haven't slept much the past few days. 😂
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Post by Tuskvegas on Jun 10, 2017 18:32:01 GMT 10
When Josh was talking about the alarm salesman, was anyone else feeling like the guy was a bit sketchy? It seemed like a weird coincidence that some other sketchy guy knocked on Josh's door not too long ago, and here comes an "alarm salesman." It could all be part of a scope of his house. I really hope that Josh made sure the guy was legit before telling him that he travels a lot and that Erin housesits for him. I don't want him to get scammed or robbed. Hopefully, he decided to go through one of the big companies, like ADT or SimpliSafe. (Wow. I sound crazy.) My family and I usually only tell people who need to know when we are going away, and we make sure that we don't discuss it loudly outside or with windows open. Is anyone else like that? Don't mind my rambling...it's 3:30 AM, and I haven't slept much the past few days. 😂 I thought he meant that he was sketch about the alarm sales guy coming so soon after that guy freaking out, THEN HE SAID HE DECIDED TO DO THE ALARM THING i was like josh whaaatttt?! |
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Post by nolitaflat on Jun 10, 2017 23:03:36 GMT 10
I saw a LOT of people saying stuff like that about her being a workaholic.... maybe we aren't the only ones who see it? IT was like almost every comment was calling her a workaholic. Damn dude |
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Post by bixie on Jun 11, 2017 2:12:46 GMT 10
When Josh was talking about the alarm salesman, was anyone else feeling like the guy was a bit sketchy? It seemed like a weird coincidence that some other sketchy guy knocked on Josh's door not too long ago, and here comes an "alarm salesman." It could all be part of a scope of his house. I really hope that Josh made sure the guy was legit before telling him that he travels a lot and that Erin housesits for him. I don't want him to get scammed or robbed. Hopefully, he decided to go through one of the big companies, like ADT or SimpliSafe. (Wow. I sound crazy.) My family and I usually only tell people who need to know when we are going away, and we make sure that we don't discuss it loudly outside or with windows open. Is anyone else like that? Don't mind my rambling...it's 3:30 AM, and I haven't slept much the past few days. 😂 I absolutely thought the "alarm salesman" was sketchy. I hope it isn't a scam or an attempt to case his house, but I strongly suspect it is. I really, really hope Josh was just remarking to us about being gone and Erin housesitting, and he didn't actually tell the guy that because he SHOULD NOT have told that to any stranger, no matter who they say they are. And now Josh is in Philly, and I really hope nothing happens when he's gone. I'm also surprised he wasn't more skeptical of the guy. Josh's trusting nature is charming and sweet, but it does not serve him well, and he needs to start being more cynical and questioning of people's motives. |
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Post by smashleigh on Jun 11, 2017 2:22:34 GMT 10
Oh god I didn't even think of the alarm guy being sketchy, I thought maybe he was just taken advantage of people's fear with that marketing strategy! Josh she def go with a bigger company to avoid any possible scams
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Post by bixie on Jun 11, 2017 2:29:23 GMT 10
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Post by bixie on Jun 11, 2017 13:10:00 GMT 10
Since I can't post on my normal thread right now, I guess I'll put this here. I feel like I jinxed Erin. She used to be so on top of posting her Wednesday and Saturday videos, and then I commented on it - about how she was so good at staying on a schedule - and now she's been missing days. Wah!! I was looking forward to her video today!
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Post by coffeechick12 on Jun 11, 2017 13:56:18 GMT 10
Since I can't post on my normal thread right now, I guess I'll put this here. I feel like I jinxed Erin. She used to be so on top of posting her Wednesday and Saturday videos, and then I commented on it - about how she was so good at staying on a schedule - and now she's been missing days. Wah!! I was looking forward to her video today! I was too! Though to be fair, she did tweet that her video would be late last week and it was late because of Adam's birthday. Still, I wish her video had gone up today like normal. |
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